Weekend is over..
Went to see Iced Age 2.. so niceeeeeeeeeeee.. and funny.... the plan initially was to watch RENT but it was too musical for me.. so we went to Screen 1 to watch Iced Age.. and I love Queen Latifah-Allie/Possum cum Mammoth! She thought that she's a possum.. went home after that.. Today is outing day with my dear Clifford.. the other housemate..
Hmm.. ok.. enough of day to day reporting..lets get emotional for a while.. What to write.. friends.. let write about friends..
"Friendship is a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of putting the other's interests before one's own. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them.
Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating on a consistent basis:
- the tendency to desire what is best for you.
- sympathy and empathy.
- honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth.
- mutual understanding.
In a comparison of personal relationships, friendship is considered to be closer than acquaintanceship, although there is a range of degrees of intimacy in both friendships and acquaintances."
Hmmm...thats a definition of friendship from Wikipedia.. which is true.. sometimes.. but then.. you only get to keep very few.. most of the people you meet.. are not truly those friends that you can keep.. for life because perhaps they are meant to be there for that certain period of time only.. to help you cope with life.. to help u go through that learning phase.. and after that, you need to let them go.. as life is a journey. Letting go off someone or something you treasure can be quite a painful experience but you've just got to do what you need to do. Life goes on.. Sigh.. what a sad thing to write at this hour.. ok la.. I should go to bed... ZzzZZzzz